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The value of play

Bridges are games: the value of play in the fable

When I wrote the sequence of the Bridges, I knew I was touching the heart of the book: the bridge really exists, and it takes the shape of play.

A definition that shifts the gaze

Solomon J. arrives in front of a rainbow water puddle expecting stone, ropes, wooden planks trembling as in films. Instead he finds a ferris wheel rising from the water, hung with the objects that belong to children. It is exactly the shift I wanted.

Pepifante says it in a sentence that works, in the story, as a threshold: “Bridges are games that switch children on, not games that children switch on.” The distinction is subtle and it changes everything. A game that a child switches on offers a world already built by someone else, with rules, timings and rewards decided elsewhere. A game that sparks the child's imagination starts with the child, takes the shape of their thoughts and carries them into what I call, in the book, the land of “here I can”.

That land has a name outside the fable too. Donald Winnicott, in Playing and Reality (Tavistock, London, 1971), describes play as an intermediate space between the inner world and the shared world, an area in which the child experiments with his own creative capacity and feels real. Winnicott ties psychic health precisely to this experience: the child is well when he plays, and by playing he becomes someone. Pepilandia is an area of this kind, with fantasy standing in for theory.

The wheel that turns empty

In the chapter, in front of the wheel, Solomon J. feels a loneliness he recognises. It is the same loneliness of afternoons at the playground, when the other children stay on the bench finishing a game on their phones and his turn on the swing keeps being pushed later. I chose that image because I meet it often, in classrooms and in playgrounds. Every cabin turns, and nobody looks at the view.

Cucù adds a line that lands hard on adults: children choose ready made wonder because the new generation of adults has less and less time to build safe bridges. Gustavo Pietropolli Charmet, in Il motore del mondo (Solferino, Milan, 2020; the title translates as The Engine of the World), describes a similar affective shift: the educational relationship today passes through emotional sharing and asks for presence, not performance. An adult’s time is the raw material of the bridge.

The little bridges of home

Right afterwards, Solomon J.’s thoughts return to the LEGO scattered in every corner, to the binoculars made from two bottle necks, to the caves of cushions and to his mother’s jumpers taken from the wardrobe. He calls them his little bridges, and he feels their absence. This is the part of the book closest to my heart, because it restores dignity to humble materials. Two bottle necks become an optical instrument, a blanket becomes architecture, a jumper keeps a scent and therefore a presence.

Lev Vygotsky's work offers a way to read the adult's role in providing symbolic tools and room to use them. Thought and Language explores the relationship between language and thinking; Mind in Society (1978) is a further reference for the zone of proximal development, the distance between what a child can do independently and what they can achieve with guidance. In the fairy tale, the Sunrise Pepilene and Pepifante open up possibilities and allow Solomon J. time to reach his own understanding.

Uncle Paul, or the adult who keeps watch

The sturdiest bridge in the book belongs to an adult who says little about himself. Uncle Paul appears on a video call with floury hands, and behind him, in the small restaurant in Grand Baie, stands the very same wheel from Pepilandia. Solomon J. recognises it and shouts his discovery: Uncle Paul keeps bridges for Pepilandia. No explanation, no lesson. An adult who has kept his own sense of wonder alive and left it in plain sight, until a child was ready to see it.

Here play reveals its second function: it holds time together. The child rediscovers an emotional bond inside an object, and that bond becomes memory available to him. In the story the wheel does exactly this work: it gathers tears and smiles, battles, victories and defeats, and it smells good.

What the book asks of adults

The story entrusts adults with a precise task: to become sturdy bridges between reality and magic. In practice this means three simple, everyday gestures.

  • Provide, every day, humble materials and time free from tasks.
  • Play together at least once a day, following the child’s idea.
  • Keep watch over the bridges he has already built, even when they seem small.

Long effects of everyday gestures

These are gestures that fit inside an ordinary day and produce lasting effects. A child who plays experiences self efficacy, learns to bear frustration within a safe frame, trains his language and his ability to tell his own story. A child whose play is met learns something more: that his imagination matters to someone.

How many worlds exist

The question running through the whole book is the same one Solomon J. carries with him from the start: how many worlds exist. The answer comes precisely from the Bridges, and it is the sentence I carry with me beyond the page too. There are as many worlds as there are bridges we learn to build.

This is why Pepifante asks for one thing only, and asks it of adults before children: children must still be able to say, “Mum, Mum, I saw a Pepileno!” A child who can say that sentence has access to their own inner world and someone beside them who listens. Play gives that world a language, and the bridge is the path we keep open for it.

References

Anusha Bhama Gukhool is the author of Solomon J. in the village of the Pepileni.

  • Donald W. Winnicott, Playing and Reality, Tavistock, London, 1971.
  • Lev S. Vygotsky, Thought and Language (original Russian title: Мышление и речь, 1934), MIT Press, Cambridge MA, 1962.
  • Lev S. Vygotsky, Mind in Society, Harvard University Press, 1978.
  • Gustavo Pietropolli Charmet, Il motore del mondo. Come sono cambiati i sentimenti [The Engine of the World: How Feelings Have Changed], Solferino, Milan, 2020.

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